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Article appearing in the Community News 1/15/08:
Heading off the homework battles
Contact: Beverly Stewart, M.Ed. 302-594-0754
When children return to school in the new
year, many parents dread the homework battles.
But parents can do a lot to head off those conflicts
by setting and committing to some
ground rules, creating a suitable work environment,
and communicating with teachers.
Some parents want their children to hit the
books as soon as they walk in the door. After
spending all day sitting, though, many children
need to give their minds a break and burn off
some physical energy first. Whether your child
requires 15, 60 or 90 minutes of down time,
make it clear that when study break is over, it’s
time to settle down to homework. Experiment
for a week or two with different options, then
set a consistent schedule to be followed
throughout the year.
Children should understand that not doing
homework simply isn’t an option, and parents
need to be strong in enforcing the homework
rules they establish.
If your child is a dawdler or daydreamer, help
to keep him on track by setting time limits. For
a young child, for example, you might allow 15
minutes to complete a language arts work sheet
or a half hour for a set of math problems. Use
an actual household timer that will buzz when
time is up. Young children do not have a welldeveloped
concept of time, but even eighth
graders can have trouble judging how long a
half hour is. Getting a child used to pacing
himself and staying on task will improve his
performance in the classroom and on standardized
tests.
The proper environment can go a long way
toward keeping your child focused and productive.
Being off in a bedroom alone—where there
are games, toys and comic books—can be just as
distracting as working in the hub of household
activity. Find a quiet but centrally located place
where you can easily pop in your head to check
on your child’s progress.
Periodic breaks will help your child to remain
focused and productive when he is working.
Lower elementary school students, for example,
might work for 20 minutes and then take a 10-
minute break. For high school students, 50 minutes
of working followed by a 10-minute break
is appropriate.
Furnish the area with all the school supplies
your child might need: pencils, sharpener, pens,
colored pencils or markers, rulers, glue sticks,
scissors, stapler, protractor
and compass,
dictionary and thesaurus.
To avoid the 8
p.m. emergency runs
to the store, go out
now and buy poster
board, construction
paper, string and other
supplies. Start now to
save shoeboxes, milk
cartons, Styrofoam
food trays, and other
items that can be used
to create projects. A little preparation now can
save hours of frustration down the road.
What if your child is working diligently in an
appropriate environment, but seems to require
too much direction from you or is struggling to
complete homework in a reasonable amount of
time? I am a strong advocate of parents communicating
with teachers. A teacher needs—and
wants—to know if a child is having difficulty
with material so that he or she can help that
child.
Different students will take different amounts
of time to complete a homework task, but the
range of times should be appropriate to the
grade level. If your child’s homework load
seems to be too much, or too little, the teacher
needs to know that, too.
When school and home are linked closely,
students are more likely to succeed.
Beverly Stewart, M.Ed., is President and Director of Back to Basics Learning Dynamics, the
area leader in one-on-one tutoring and small group instruction for students of all ages. Back to Basics
also runs a state-approved alternative school. Email Beverly at beverly@backtobasicslearning.com
or call (302) 594-0754.
Back to Basics Learning Dynamics, Inc. is located on 6 Stone Hill Road, Wilmington. |
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